You don’t have to choose between being kind OR being strong. It’s a false choice.
You can be both.
Let’s make space for your new assertive identity.
When have you flipped into ‘nasty’, ‘doormat’ or ‘selfish’?
Suppose you were acting kind AND strong, what would other people notice different about you?
Put it in the comments. I always reply and it’ll help it stick.
Love it! I love your visuals and your explanations. You explain “why” it’s important in a whole different way from anyone else I’ve seen or talked to. Thank you Andrew for your insight.
Thanks Robin 🙂
I literally just sent out an email on a similar subject. In case you’re not subscribed, it’s here https://mailchi.mp/9473056eba6e/love-and-power
Thank you so much, this has really resonated with me. I’m definitely a nice doormat, but need to be kinder to myself.
Glad to hear it Marie 🙂
So good and so simple! I love the idea of ‘hidden cruelty’. Thank you.
Glad it’s helpful, Mandy.