Escape the “Trying Harder” Trap

If you tend to self sacrifice, you need to learn to escape the “trying harder” trap. In this video:

  • why you probably need to try less not more
  • why changing course can be difficult
  • and give you some small exercises to put that into practice

  • What qualities do you like about yourself that are not to do with looking after others?
  • What could you do less for the world this week?
  • What can you do to take care of yourself today?

Put your answers in the comments.  It will help them stick.

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